If you’re on a ride you can’t get off, take a look at what you’re doing, what you’ve agreed to, what it’s asking you to do, and how that’s affecting your significant relationships. Worries and fears are eating away at your passion and undermining the core of your agreement so it’s in danger of going sour. Don’t collapse into self-destruction, and don’t let the goodness in your life fall in the face of negativity and despair. We’ve been talking for the last week or so about boundaries, and Gefjon here is making it as obvious as obvious can be: draw lines and cut yourself apart from those who are not good for you. Lock them out and move on. Be determined and aggressive in defending your boundaries, and recognize when someone is throwing you under the bus.