Don’t let your fears and worries block you from exploring new avenues, my dears. Explore new ideas. Take a chance on new ways of thinking and doing things. You might be surprised. Have faith in your ability to survive and thrive, and start making your own churches and pilgrimages. Decide for you what will work and what you want. Decide what works best for you in terms of rules and regulations, and then build on that. Flow with what makes you happy, and trust your guiding instincts–and if you work with gods and/or other sacred energies, trust them to guide you as well. Don’t block yourself off from happiness or the potential of happiness in the name of “protecting yourself.” That’s less helpful than you might think.